bookbashuk Chapter 431 Cultivation Girlfriend
Chapter 431 Cultivation Girlfriend
Chapter 431 Cultivation Girlfriend
Two or three days after the concert.
Lu You took his family to travel around the capital and surrounding cities.
During this period, Lu Jingshu also set an ambition, saying that she wanted to apply to the same university as her brother in the future.
Lu You rubbed Lu Jingshu's head and said only one sentence: Just do your best.
There are some things in this world that you can't do just because you want to.
Taking the entrance exam to Capital University is hard and tiring.
Anyway, her family is well-off and she has a high starting point. Instead of burying her head in studies, Lu You hopes that Lu Jingshu can live a happier life.
On the afternoon of October 6, after the family had lunch, Lu Jianyan, Shen Yuyin, and Lu Jingshu boarded a plane back to Yue Province.
As he bid farewell to his family, memories of the past few days together flooded into his mind, interweaving into an emotion called "melancholy" that occupied Lu You's heart.
I have experienced all the emotions that I had never experienced in my previous life in this life.
However, melancholy comes and goes quickly.
After returning home, Lu You played two games of poker with Tang Wan and was resurrected with half health.
As for why it is not full health, those who understand will understand.
The next evening.
Six days later, Lu You and Tang Wan returned to school again.
Soon after entering the school gate, the two separated, one returned to the dormitory and the other went to the student union.
Walking on the school road that is neither wide nor narrow, I pass by one student after another.
Lu You didn't pay attention to anyone, but just thought silently about the arrangements for this semester.
The high-quality mathematics competitions in universities are generally concentrated from April to June, which is the second semester.
Lu You doesn’t need to remember the registration date, Xiao Liang will help him register.
Lu You doesn’t need to remember the start date of the competition, Xiao Liang will notify him in advance.
In other words, during the first semester of his freshman year, Lu You had plenty of time to himself.
Thinking of this, Lu You couldn't help laughing.
Having more disposable time means that he can devote himself to studying and self-improvement without having to reduce the time he spends with Tang Wan.
Lu You walked into the dormitory building while detailing his study plan for this semester.
When Lu You came to his senses, he had already arrived at the door of dormitory 403.
He took out the key, unlocked the door, and then pushed the door open.
Looking around, you can see the dormitory scene in full view.
His desk and bed remained the same as before the holiday. On Zhang Zhichuang and Bi Yangde's desks were two open laptops, running the same game, but there was no sign of them.
Gong Qing stood in front of his closet with an open suitcase at his feet.
Lu You closed the door and asked, "Are you the only one in the dormitory?"
Gong Qing took out a sweater from the suitcase, put it on a hanger, put it in the closet, and replied, "They both went to get their hair cut."
Lu You hung his schoolbag behind the chair and felt the length of his hair after hearing what he said.
It is neither too long nor too short, and can just reach the ears on both sides, so it is in the range where it can be trimmed or not.
"Hemorrhoids also said that he would spend a lot of money to get a new hairstyle, so that he could shock his classmates tomorrow." Gong Qing added.
Lu You sat on the chair and said with a smile: "With his temperament, he will look the same no matter what hairstyle he has."
Gong Qing shrugged and said, "I advised him the same thing, but he didn't listen and insisted on giving it a try."
“I’m looking forward to seeing him when he returns.”
After a few simple greetings, Lu You didn't waste any more time and took out his laptop to start studying.
The National Day holiday is over and life should return to normal.
Besides, when Zhang Zhichuang comes back, I will probably be dragged by him to play a four-player online game.
On the surface, it is said to enhance dormitory friendship, but in reality it is just for everyone to have fun together.
But he doesn’t play games every night, after all, Zhang Zhichuang also needs to study.
After one hour.
Lu You stretched and prepared to take a five-minute break, then got himself a cup of hot water and continued studying.
When he turned his head, he saw Gong Qing standing beside him, staring at him.
"Is something wrong?"
"Have you finished learning?" Gong Qing asked instead of answering.
"Learning has no end, and mathematics has no end." Lu You replied, and then said: "If you have anything to say, just tell me directly."
"I heard that you are an expert in dating?"
A string of question marks appeared above Lu You's head. He asked, "Where did you hear this rumor that has no factual basis?"
"I took you as one."
Lu You curled the corners of his mouth and really said "what can I say".
Gong Qing moved Bi Yangde's chair, sat down, and said, "I have a very serious question for you. How can we reduce the mental fatigue during a long-distance relationship?"
"speak English."
"Yesterday, my girlfriend cried to me and said that long-distance relationships are so hard to endure. Other people in relationships stick together every day and love each other so much, but in our relationship, not only can we not see each other, but we also have to think about all kinds of things from time to time. She can't stand it any longer."
"No, I said." Lu You crossed his arms and said with a smile: "It's only been a little over a month since the start of school, and you went back home during the Mid-Autumn Festival. Can't you hold on? Your relationship is too fragile!"
Gong Qing sighed and said with a melancholy expression: "To be honest, I feel the same way."
"You are also a waste!" Lu You sneered mercilessly.
Gong Qing did not refute, but lowered his head and said to himself: "She and I are neighbors. We have known each other since kindergarten. From the age of three to eighteen, we have never been apart. We even traveled together as two families."
"Fuck, she's actually a training girlfriend!"
Now it was Lu You's turn to be envious.
If possible, Lu You also wants to travel back to his childhood and participate in Tang Wan's life early on.
Accompanying her from a naive toddler to a graceful and bright young girl.
Although it looks more or less like copper smelting, the great sense of accomplishment is real.
“Master!” Gong Qing raised his head and looked at Lu You for help, saying, “You also have experience in long-distance relationships, can you help me?”
Lu You did not respond immediately, but fell into deep thought.
During the training camp last year, he and Tang Wan were indeed in a long-distance relationship, but their situation was significantly different from Gong Qing's.
Their time away from home is short, only about three months, and has a clear end date.
As for Gong Qing and his girlfriend, the minimum period is four years, with no upper limit.
Lu You remembered clearly that Gong Qing planned to study abroad after graduating from college.
Seeing that Lu You remained silent, Gong Qing thought that he had no good solution and his mood gradually fell to the bottom.
Just when Gong Qing was about to give up, Lu You finally spoke.
"Lao Gong, do you know the difference between a single-core CPU and a multi-core CPU?"
Gong Qing was confused and didn't understand the meaning of Lu You's sudden irrelevant question, but he still answered truthfully: "The number of CPU cores represents the number of core units."
Lu You nodded slightly and said, "The human brain can be compared to a single-core CPU, which can only process one thread of tasks at a time. When you devote yourself to one thing, your brain will naturally not have random thoughts."
Gong Qing probably understood what Lu You meant.
In short, he was too idle and had to find something to do.
"But this method only treats the symptoms and not the root cause. It is more like covering one's ears and stealing the bell. The problem will not disappear just because I avoid it. It still exists objectively."
Lu You looked at Gong Qing steadily and asked, "Can you change the status quo of a long-distance relationship?"
Gong Qing remained silent. If he could change, why would he ask Lu You for help?
Lu You also knew that he couldn't change, so he continued: "Since you can't change it, you can only adapt, adjust your mentality, and prevent yourself from being anxious. You have to understand that the biggest impact on long-distance relationships is not what you worry about, but the worry itself.
The reasons for long-distance couples to break up, apart from the third party and the alienation caused by long-term separation, the rest is suspicion leading to the breakdown of trust between the two parties. If there is no trust between people, let alone love, business can't be discussed.
Therefore, my advice to you is to maintain a certain frequency of contact and use meaningful things to squeeze out the time you spend missing each other.
The less time you spend missing someone, the less random thoughts you will have. Your attitude will naturally be better during daily communication with your partner, which will in turn influence the other person and make them feel good as well.
Also, paint more pie for your girlfriend. It doesn't need to be too big, but it must be round. On a big level, tell her your life plan, which must include her. On a small level, agree on the exact time and content of the next meeting, so that she feels safe while still keeping expectations for the future. "
It must be said that Lu You's words gave Gong Qing a lot of inspiration.
After all the complaints his girlfriend made to him, wasn't it all about her lack of security?
Once the key problem is identified, all that remains is to find a solution.
Lack of security? Then give it enough security!
As for how to give it, combined with Lu You's words of painting a big picture, Gong Qing had a vague idea, but the specific implementation still needed to be carefully considered.
Seeing Gong Qingruo's satisfied expression, Lu You knew that his words had worked, and a faint smile appeared on his face.
Children can be taught.
Lu You took the water cup, stood up, patted Gong Qing on the shoulder, and said, "Finally, I'll pour a bucket of cold water on you. Long-distance relationships rarely have a good ending. Stop it as soon as possible and cut your losses in time."
Gong Qing immediately became angry and yelled, "Get up quickly!"
……
Five minutes passed.
Lu You got some hot water and returned to the dormitory, only to see Gong Qing standing outside the balcony talking on the phone with someone.
Lu You couldn't hear who he was talking to or what he was talking about, and he was too lazy to eavesdrop.
However, it is not difficult to tell from Gong Qing's comfortable little movements that he seemed to be having a good chat with his girlfriend.
"Okay, problem solved, I should continue studying."
Lu You calmed himself down, faced the computer, and was just about to get into the state.
Bang.
The dormitory door opens.
"Oh my, why are there still people studying before the National Day holiday is over? I've already secured first place in my major, who would still be studying for this exam?"
Among the people he knew, Lu You couldn't think of anyone else except Zhang Zhichuang who would say such sarcastic words.
Lu You turned around and wanted to have a heated argument with Zhang Zhichuang.
Then, he was stuck, and all the insults in his mind disappeared.
"Where did you get this slicked-back hair?"
Zhang Zhichuang shook his head, causing his strong hair to tremble. He said coquettishly, "Isn't he handsome? Do you feel my mature manly temperament from the inside out?"
Lu You really wanted to complain, but Zhang Zhi's innovative hairstyle was so shocking that he didn't know how to put it into words.
"Take a selfie and send it to Qin Xiyue, and she will tell you the answer."
"Makes sense!"
Zhang Zhichuang was a man of action. He immediately posed, took a selfie and sent it to Qin Xiyue via WeChat.
five minutes later.
Zhang Zhichuang hugged Lu You's thighs and cried loudly, with snot and tears, "Wuwuwu, Brother Lu! Yueyue blocked me! My first love is over! Wuwuwu..."
Lu You covered his forehead and sighed, "Go wash your hair, and then call Qin Xiyue before it's too late."
"Woo woo woo, is this helpful?"
"It's better than you crying here."
With the help of Bi Yangde, Zhang Zhichuang left the dormitory again.
Looking at the tightly closed dormitory door, Lu Youming realized a truth: hairstyle can improve a man's temperament, even his vulgarity.
(End of this chapter)